The Scientific Anatomy
of an Everlusting Marriage

The Easy Way to Reimagined & Redesign Your Marriage, Spark Your Passion, and Experience Bliss Like Never Before

Welcome to the brutal honest sugarcoat-free conversation about the bulletproof toolbox that shifts all your dreams of blissful marriage into reality.

Now, if you’re here and you just want to get married, call a party planner. But if you want to celebrate an everlasting family life, continue reading:

There is a huge gap when it comes to marriage.

A gap between the love life you always dreamed of, and the reality of joining the growing club of those who start marriage as a dream and now wake up to a nightmare.

Because we all know how you started your relationship.

There was love, romantic eye contact, burning desire for intimacy, trust, oneness, deep soulful connection, friendship and much more.

Until you saw the butterflies fly away and reality came knocking on your door. And this gap is there because the world never told you the truth about relationships.

What the world never was brave to tell you is that GETTING MARRIED is very easy but BEING MARRIED is even easier….only when you know what you’re doing.

The Reality Is,

Marriage Needs a Blueprint

If you want to eat a homemade cake, the first thing you need is a recipe.

When you take the recipe and you buy the ingredients all you have to do is follow the measurements and the process step by step.

And when you follow this process you will end up having a cake.

Not probably, Not hopefully, Not maybe…

You will have 100% a cake

And that is not because you became a brilliant baker overnight.

The reason why you will have a cake is because you were given the exact directions of what to do and how to do it.

The universal rule

of life is simple.

When you know what you are doing, chances for you to succeed are high and when you don't know what you are doing you will fail!

Marriage is not exempt from this rule!

The number one reason why marriage has become a nightmare for millions of people, the reason why family law attorneys are making billions of dollars out of horrible marriages, is because nobody ever sent you to school to learn how this system works…

If you baked a cake and didn’t use a recipe, would you expect the cake to turn out perfectly? Would you even try to bake a cake in the first place? Probably not, unless your desired outcome was a pan of hot batter that barely resembles a cake when you take it out of the oven.

But that doesn’t mean you’re a hopeless case. Because when you do follow a recipe, you can still end up with a sweet, delicious cake, no matter how inexperienced a baker you are!

You see, while love, intimacy, sexuality, friendship is all very natural, an 80-year committed contract with one person is very unnatural.

And for that to work in harmony and love, an everlasting connection you need the course.

It’s Never Too Late to Build a
Better Marriage

Even if you’ve been suffering together for decades.

Even if you argue yourselves in circles…or you haven’t spoken in days.

Even if your browser is filled with divorce lawyers’ websites right now.

Even then you can build a better marriage.

And yes, I mean build.

Because you don’t fall into a great marriage.

HEALTHY AND HAPPY MARRIAGE IS NOT SOMETHING THAT HAPPENED BECAUSE YOU "WANT IT".

HAPPY MARRIAGE HAPPENS when you know how to CREATE IT.

You see, I’m an architect. A relationship architect. And for over 30 years I’ve helped my clients build their dream relationships using a bulletproof relationship blueprint that I invented.

With this blueprint you will build a marriage that…

• Renews you intimacy and desire
• Fortifies mutual respect
• Encourages you to love and be loved exactly as you need

And allows you to communicate your needs and desires freely without things blowing up into an argument.

Yes, you can build your dream marriage that exceeds any love you’ve felt before.

But to do that you need a recipe…

And Following the Right Recipe is Easy!

I’ve been working with couples just like you for over 30 years with great success.

But I’m not a therapist or psychiatrist or counselor. I’m not here to help you work through your problems or put out fires as they pop up.

And I’ve seen this blueprint improve
so much more than just marriages.

Families can thrive, children can grow up knowing what a loving household feels like, your career can take off, your health can improve.

Only once you create your fullest relationship potential will you realize how much better life can be, and how much you and your spouse were missing out on.

It doesn’t matter if you’ve been together for years and are on the verge of divorce despite hours of counseling, or if you’ve only known one another for a few weeks and are proactively preparing for a beautiful marriage… No matter where you are in your marriage, all you need is the right blueprint.

Follow it step-by-step, and your dream marriage will begin to unfold.

Here’s what the recipe for a happy marriage looks like:

Testimonials

Meet Your
Marriage Architect

Hello, I’m David Toledano.

My deep understanding of sacred partnerships comes from over 30 years of experience showing individuals, couples, families, and businesses how to achieve concrete and lasting results in their relationships, conducting hundreds of popular seminars, and establishing a wealth of spiritual wisdom gained through rabbinical experience, and a lifelong search for the secret formula to successful, lasting marriages.

Today, I am a published author, prolific international speaker, executive transformational trainer, relationship expert, and family life coach who specializes in ALL stages of relationships: dating, premarital, marriage, divorce, family and parenting.

I cannot wait to work with you.

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“Rabbi Toledano has an impeccable ability to see things through a magnified psychological lens that compels you to actually consider things from an entirely different perspective. He is able to explain his unique perspective in a clear and concise manner which lends itself easily to practical application. Rabbi Toledano’s insightful words, from years ago, remain with me to this day. He is a wealth of insight and patience. His guidance has benefited many and will continue to benefit many more to come.”

Jubin Meraj, Principal at Law Office of Jubin Meraj

“I had the privilege of going to a seminar by Rabbi David Toledano. Not being a religious person, I was a bit wary of going and unsure of what to expect. However, I did not expect to hear things in this seminar that would shape the rest of my life, but that is exactly what happened. Rabbi Toledano is not simply a Rabbi, he is a Life Coach! What he teaches are ‘invaluable life lessons’ with regards to relationships (platonic, romantic, and familial), marriage, and how to find true and lasting happiness in all aspects of life. I cannot recommend his seminar highly enough. His seminar taught single people what to look for in a mate and further introduced married couples to the methods by which to create, and sustain, a loving and healthy relationship. If you get the opportunity to attend one of his seminars, sign up immediately. It is the best gift you could give yourself!”

- Natalie Ashouri, Personal Injury Lawyer at Law Office of Natalie Ashouri

“David Toledano is a superman of consciousness and is a personality which allows people to have room to access who they are through him. There should be more Rabbi Toledano’s because we are enriched by him. I think we are in a critical time in the world where so many have drawn borders and created barriers due to religion and it separates people, but David is the space that brings people together as more of an interfaith commitment so that those barriers and borders can come down and we learn how to have more communion through him.”

- Dr. Ray Blanchard, Leadership Trainer & Coach, Owner of Ray Blanchard Training Systems, Founder-Director TrainUP Forum

“David has a way of observing life in the world that generates a type of love that allows people to come together, whether it be in families, or communities. I really believe that he has a presence of love that can be transformative. He stands for, and truly believes, that people can live together with harmony and love.”

- Bettie Spruill, CEO & Founder of Ideal Coaching Global

“Initially I learned about Rabbi Toledano through my work with a television production company and sought out to work with him by showcasing his talent as a “Rescue Rabbi” because that was how he had been categorized. I was engaged at the time to my current husband and hadn’t entertained the idea of pre-marriage counseling, but when Rabbi Toledano asked if we would be interested it seemed intriguing. During our sessions, David coached us on the importance, and value, of expectations and communications. We all know those two things are important but it’s how we convey our expectations and seek to communicate those, among other things, effectively that makes a huge difference. We still actively discuss the lessons learned from David even after years of marriage and having children because we didn’t learn how to communicate more effectively for short-term fixes. The information learned is for long-term solutions. I can’t expect for my husband to do something that would be meaningful to me if I never talk about it with him. He is very honest and forces you to be honest with yourself and what you are looking for. One thing that stood out to both my husband and I was the Rabbi’s question, ‘What does your plate look like that you are bringing to this table?’ The table of course being marriage and marriage to this person is a choice. In comparison to other life coaches I’ve found that most of them want for you to think more broad-spectrum whereas with Rabbi Toledano it is more granular and builds towards the broad context of things because the real work is done pre-marriage in order to create a solid, lasting foundation with yourself and for the person you are choosing to be in a marriage with. Another thing I want to emphasize is that you do not need to be Jewish, or of any faith for that matter, to experience Rabbi Toledano’s amazing work because he transcends faith that is not bound by religious or spiritual beliefs. Some people might be concerned that they will not benefit from his work if they are not Jewish or religious or that they will feel forced into speaking about religion and that just isn’t the case at all. His coaching can help anyone to create a happy home life and having that is a launchpad for other things in our life like having children, and even with career and work environment. We’re just people trying to help each other get through life, and marriage is a huge step. It’s so important to have someone with so much knowledge and experience with their own marriage to help aid others and Rabbi Toledano is that person!”

- Crystal Ogden, Television Network Paralegal

“My husband and I work in different fields that can often cause issues for married couples. I am an actress and my husband is a surgeon. Rabbi Toledano’s “Marriage By Design” was the answer to our relationship and his coaching was an ongoing source of encouragement when bringing our lives together in marriage. We both knew what we wanted with personal career goals and sometimes it can seem great while you're dating, but things can change after marriage because either one or both people had expectations they didn’t make known or perhaps they talked about it but the other spouse figured they would eventually change their mind or vice versa. That way of thinking often leads to unhappy marriages and maybe even divorce. My husband and I wanted to be in this together and understand each other wholly. Rabbi Toledano taught us how to dig deep into ourselves and overcome the fear of rejection when saying what we need and want. We learned how to be free with each other so that we could build a lasting marriage, friendship, and family. His teachings are never forgotten and are practical for use in many areas of life. David is truly an invaluable soul!”

- Ilana Kala, Actress

“Although David’s seminar is titled ‘Marriage by Design’, it could easily be referred to as ‘LIVING BY DESIGN’. David’s manner of coaching is extraordinarily unique and unlike any other coaching or therapy I’ve personally experienced or heard others talk about. He beckons you to look deep within yourself to find the answers because it’s all there when we are in a comfortable and welcoming environment where speaking freely about our desires, goals, and fears is strongly encouraged. I have never experienced a session where a coach or therapist did not attempt to change my point of view until working with David. He actually found value in my perspectives and sought to understand my way of thinking! Through his desire to understand me I learned that my initial feelings and response to matters of life and relationships may not have been authentic to me, but that I had been taught to respond in specific ways that rarely yielded long-lasting, desirable outcomes that I wanted. David teaches people how to have healthy relationships in all aspects of life (personal and work) so that we can feel successful no matter what we are trying to accomplish.”

- Benjamin Sharfi

“Rabbi Toledano’s ‘Marriage By Design’ is a game changer. As he states, ‘you can’t go wrong if you just follow the recipe ingredients in a cookbook’! Coming from a household that didn’t have a great marriage, my husband and I were set on being well equipped for the journey we set out to embark on. Through the weeks leading up to our wedding, we attended one of his larger group seminars and had one on one couple sessions that I truly believe provided us with unparalleled knowledge that set the tone for our marriage by offering us new perspectives on relationships, life as a whole, and building a life together. IT ALL MADE SO MUCH SENSE! I continue recommending his seminar to family and friends that are married and those that are dating with hopeful prospects of marriage. I am forever grateful for the knowledge gained through Rabbi Toledano and I am eagerly looking forward to the continuation of ‘Marriage by Design’”.

- Dr. Tal Rapaport